Don't Copy & Paste | God’s Custom Plan for Every Faith Journey | Episode 4

Pastor Dr. Alton McKinley, Amber McKinley-Peterson

Supporting someone’s faith journey isn’t about cloning your walk — it’s about grace, patience, and light that guides instead of blinds. In this episode of Uncharted Faith, Amber and Pastor McKinley dig into Matthew 7 and Romans 14 to unpack judging vs. discerning, culture vs. Scripture, and why vulnerability beats spiritual performance. We talk loving people at different stages, not weaponizing your “light,” and trusting Philippians 1:6 — God finishes what He starts.

What you’ll hear: practical ways to support others (active listening, presence, encouragement, trusting God’s timing), why perfectionism harms discipleship, and how to keep fellowship strong even when opinions differ. If you’ve ever felt “behind” in your faith — or been tempted to rush someone else’s process — this one’s for you.

Timestamps:

• 00:00 Intro + fill‑in‑the‑blank Bible quiz (Matthew 7, Romans 14)

• 06:20 Different levels, same Lord: loving people where they are

• 16:45 Light that leads vs. light that blinds

• 25:10 Culture ≠ Scripture: testing traditions

• 34:00 Practical ways to support someone’s faith walk

• 41:50 Gospel clarity + Philippians 1:6 encouragement

How to support the show:

• Subscribe, like, and share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement.

• Comment: What’s one way you’ll “shine to guide, not blind” this week?

• Leave a rating/review — it really helps others find the podcast.

Scripture references: Matthew 7:1‑5, Romans 14:1‑3, Philippians 1:6


Key takeaways

• Grace over perfection: Real discipleship makes room for process; instant transformation isn’t the standard — Jesus is.

• Different levels, same Lord: People grow at different paces; meet them where they are without cloning your walk onto theirs.

• Light that guides, not blinds: Let your witness illuminate the path, not someone’s face; lead, don’t laser.

• Culture vs. Scripture: Test traditions against the Word; don’t let preferences masquerade as doctrine.

• Presence is ministry: Active listening, undivided attention, and encouragement are spiritual work.

• Trust God’s timing: Philippians 1:6 — God completes what He begins; you’re not the architect of someone else’s pace.


Quotables

• “If you could be perfect, there’d be no need for the cross.”

• “Your light is meant to lead, not to blind.”

• “Different levels, same Lord — love people where they are.”

• “Tradition is a lens; Scripture is the standard.”

• “Presence is often the most powerful sermon.”

• “He who began a good work in you will carry it to completion.”


Call to action

• Listen and share: Send this to one person you want to support this week.

• Engage: Comment your answer — What’s one way you’ll ‘shine to guide, not blind’ in a real conversation?

• Subscribe + review: Help others discover the show by rating on Spotify/Apple and subscribing on YouTube.

• Reflect: Re‑read Matthew 7:1‑5 and Romans 14:1‑3; ask, “Where am I tempted to judge instead of serve?”


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